Most people mix up deal breakers, red flags, and preferences. Not knowing what your must-haves and deal breakers are can keep you spinning and feeling stuck

Use this simple filter to protect your energy and date with clarity. Learn how to say “this is not for me” so you can move on to finding what is.

You’re allowed to decide you’re not interested—after several dates, a few texts, or even just a feeling. Here I’ll show you exactly how to say “no thanks” in dating without guilt, overexplaining, or emotional labor. You don’t need to soften the truth—you just need to be honest and clear.