Dating doesn’t have to suck.

Are you ready to take control of your dating life?

Women feel bad dating a lot of the time. I’d like to change that.

You’ve done the hard things—healing, growing, being strong for everyone else. But some things still feel out of reach. Like dating in a way that feels good. It’s time to change that. It’s time to make dating easier, less frustrating and much more fun.

If dating feels exhausting—getting your hopes up only to get ghosted or realize, yet again, that someone isn’t a good fit for you—you’re not alone.

Maybe it’s the endless texting and phone calls that go nowhere, swiping that feels like a chore, and no real connections in sight. You’ve become used to breadcrumbing, emotionally unavailable men, and weird emoji energy. You’ve had enough of the guys that only want one thing - and that is definitely not a relationship. It might start with, “This one feels different” and ends with “What the hell just happened?”

You’re left with confusion, self-doubt, anger, frustration and wanting to quit dating altogether.

If you’re tired of rereading texts, wondering what went wrong, acting like you don’t care when you really do, there’s nothing wrong with you.

You just haven’t mastered modern dating… yet!

It’s not about changing you. It’s about changing how you date.

It’s not you. (Well, not exactly…)

Does any of this sound familiar?

  • Feeling anxious after a great date, wondering if you said too much or not enough

  • Constantly overanalyzing texts (or the lack of texts)

  • Getting caught in a loop of hope and self-doubt that leaves you questioning yourself and your choices

  • Falling into “situationships” or settling for half-ass relationships with emotionally unavailable men

  • Attracting people who only want sex—or expect you to be chill, low-maintenance, and available on demand

  • Feeling fed up with dating apps but not sure where—or how else—you’re supposed to meet someone in real life

  • Wanting a real connection without playing games, wasting time, or pretending to be someone you’re not

  • Hoping to find a lasting relationship but unsure if that is even possible for you anymore

  • Feeling like dating is just... exhausting, demoralizing, and maybe not even worth it

  • Finding yourself constantly wondering, “Is it me?”

I’m here to tell you, it’s not you. But it might be in how you’re showing up for others, and for yourself.

But you can change that. Gently. Clearly. Confidently. And with a supportive guide by your side every step of the way.

It’s about changing how you date so you can stop shrinking, overthinking and pouring into people who don’t pour into you.

When you shift, everything about your dating experience starts to shift, too.

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Eight weeks. Life changing results.

Are you ready to turn dating anxiety into confidence and frustration into connection? Are you ready to uplevel your relationships for good?

  • Set boundaries without overexplaining or second-guessing

  • Differentiate between red flags, preferences and deal breakers

  • Connect with confidence regardless of who you are meeting

  • Say ‘no’ faster so you can get to your ‘yes’ sooner

  • Date without losing yourself in the process

  • Turn swiping frustration into dating opportunities

  • Meet potential dating partners in real life not just online

  • Become your own matchmaker

  • Let go of other people’s expectations for what your life should look like

  • Stop settling and start selecting

  • … and so much more!

With my eight-week personalized 1:1 coaching, you will learn how to:

If you’re ready to start dating with ease on a way to finding a relationship you love, this is for you!

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Invest in your relationship with you.

You are the constant in every relationship you will ever have. So that is where we will begin. I will teach you how to:

  • Calm Your Mind: Stop ruminating and let go of repeating thoughts and frustrations to reduce stress and anxiety.

  • Calm Your Body: Release the emotions that keep your nervous system on high alert to create emotional well-being.

  • Break Old Patterns: Let go of old habits that no longer serve you for more empowered and connected relationships.

  • Prioritize Quality Connections: Recognize meaningful connections to let go of draining or unsatisfying relationships.

  • Make Decisions: Overcome indecision to move forward with confidence in your life and relationships.

  • Rewrite Your Journey: Make sense of your past on the way to creating a future you’re excited about.

  • Believe In Yourself: You will learn how to call in the kind of person, and relationship, you actually want and believe you are worthy of having it.

If you’re ready for change, I’m ready for you!

You’ll get:

➕ Practical tips & mindset shifts

➕ Weekly sessions with personalized guidance that’s just for you

➕ Access to my worksheet library for learning between sessions on the dating and relationship topics that matter most to you

➕ Life-changing insights from a three-time Certified Life and Relationship Coach

➕ Benefits that will improve all of your relationships - not just in dating!

Investment: $997

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An experienced guide on your journey to lasting change

Transform your life and relationships forever with powerful coaching from a Certified Life & Relationship Coach.

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What people are saying

  • “Paige is unafraid to challenge you, can sense where your brain is holding onto old thoughts, and knows when to shift the conversation based on what your needs are.”

    — Rachel T.

  • "Coaching with Paige has given me a safe space to work through issues that have been causing me angst for years and provided me with tips and strategies to move past these struggles and move forward with my life."

    — Rachel B.

  • "Paige will guide you to discovering yourself on a deeper level! She taught me to become a better, freer version of myself."

    — Ana S.

  • "Coaching helped me to take action! When I started coaching last year I was doing a lot of spinning about things I wanted to do or change but not actually doing anything. Coaching has helped me neutralize a lot of decisions I had been making too much of and has then got me to actually do something about those decisions."

    — Katie P.

My Ethical Coaching Pledge

I love and serve humans of all sexual and gender identities. To ensure my communications are clear and concise, I sometimes draw from heteronormative relationship examples based on my personal experience. I hold space for and honor all people and all types of relationships.

I do my best to always be transparent. If I believe your coaching needs don't align with my expertise or experience, or if you need supports beyond what I can comfortably offer, I will let you know as soon as I become aware of this and will do my best to aid your efforts to find someone better suited to assist you as I am able.

I am upfront in my pricing and have aimed to provide my services at a cost which honors not only my training and expertise but also my belief in my ability to coach you toward change. I don’t want you to stay stuck rehashing the same stories over and over again. I also aim to provide a livable wage for myself to support my family.

FAQs

  • Coaching is kind of like therapy but with an eye towards helping you move forward and feel empowered in your own life. Sometimes we talk about what you’re thinking. Sometimes we process what you’re feeling. Sometimes we work on releasing the past. Sometimes we work on creating a new future. I will meet you where you are and never make you feel bad for where you’ve been.

    You will learn how you can change your relationships with others by investing in your relationship with yourself.

    We meet weekly to make progress and take breaks as needed to process.

  • If you come open and willing to do the work, you will be changed as a result of your coaching.

    What is the work? Being open, being self-reflective, taking ownership of what role you played in creating what you have so far, releasing what no longer serves you, deciding what you want to have instead, and being willing to be uncomfortable on the way to getting it.

    However, just like any healing modality, no results are guaranteed. Sometimes things click right away, sometimes they take longer to sink in. Sometimes the results are easy to see, sometimes they aren’t as visible.

    My goal is that the work will do together will have a lasting impact on you and how you approach all of your relationships. I want you to feel calmer, more self-confident, more self-compassionate, and more loving to yourself as a result of this work.

  • Let me start by saying, I LOVE COACHING! And I think that comes out in the way that I connect with people I coach. I love helping women feel better and get unstuck.

    I love holding space for all the emotions and stories that you have.

    I love finding solutions where you might think there are none.

    I love making you laugh while you cry.

    I am direct, kind, open, empathetic, passionate, sometimes sweary, and I am here for all of it!

  • Get started by signing up here.
    Have questions? Email me at paige.m.dempsey@gmail.com and I’ll get back to you as soon as I can.

Still have questions about coaching? Schedule a FREE Relationship Coaching Transformation Call with me today. I will coach you on whatever is coming up and you can decide if we are a good fit to work together. No pressure. Life changing insights.