If you’re not sure what you're looking for, it’s no wonder dating feels frustrating and confusing. It’s like shopping without a list—you end up with a bunch of ingredients and no genuine meals. Read on to learn how getting honest about what you're looking for in a partner and a relationship will help you stop dating in circles and start making meaningful connections.

Dating can feel like a gamble, and it’s tempting to look for ways to guarantee a good outcome. But here’s the truth—there’s no insurance for dating. No amount of checklists, social media polls, or background details will predict whether someone is a great match. Some things you just can’t know until you know them. The real key? Trusting yourself to recognize what works, what doesn’t, and adjusting as you go.