What if you stopped swiping aimlessly and started dating strategically?

In this post, I’m sharing how to apply real-world strategic planning tools (yes, like the ones used in boardrooms and business meetings) to your dating life. Whether you're dating for the first time in a while or just tired of going in circles, this 4-Step Process will help you create a clear vision, identify what’s getting in your way, and take bold action toward the kind of love you actually want.

I was coaching someone recently who was contemplating the question of whether or not to stay in their marriage and I shared the following exercise that I found helpful with my ex-spouse: When we were knee deep in couples counseling and the therapist was going back and forth between us, I finally interrupted the session and asked my then husband this question: "What is your vision for our marriage?" When he answered, I knew we were not going to the same place.